Fix FileTransferManager invoking request listeners

those need to be called asynchronously.

Also add a small API for that.

smack-core/src/main/java/org/jivesoftware/smack/util/Async.java

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+/**
+ *
+ * Copyright 2014 Florian Schmaus
+ *
+ * Licensed under the Apache License, Version 2.0 (the "License");
+ * you may not use this file except in compliance with the License.
+ * You may obtain a copy of the License at
+ *
+ *     http://www.apache.org/licenses/LICENSE-2.0
+ *
+ * Unless required by applicable law or agreed to in writing, software
+ * distributed under the License is distributed on an "AS IS" BASIS,
+ * WITHOUT WARRANTIES OR CONDITIONS OF ANY KIND, either express or implied.
+ * See the License for the specific language governing permissions and
+ * limitations under the License.
+ */
+package org.jivesoftware.smack.util;
+
+public class Async {
+
+    public static void go(Runnable runnable) {
+        Thread thread = new Thread(runnable);
+        thread.setDaemon(true);
+        thread.start();
+    }
+}